How to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself

How to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself

Many moms believe being hard on themselves is the engine that drives good parenting, productivity, and accountability. But research on self-compassion shows the opposite: harsh self-talk often creates a shame spiral that clouds thinking, drains energy, and keeps you...
Write your Inner Critic a Letter

Write your Inner Critic a Letter

We all have an inner critic. Her job is to notice all the times we make mistakes, fall short of our goals or even just fail to meet our own often unreasonable expectations.  She is a creation of the survival portion of our brains, but she is going about her duty to...
Your Inner Critic is Desperate to Protect You

Your Inner Critic is Desperate to Protect You

Sometimes I get to the end of my day and I feel beat up, not physically, on the outside, but emotionally, on the inside.  Inevitably when this happens, it’s because I’ve had a day where I feel like I’ve let people down. Maybe it’s my clients, or my children or my...

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